You've heard the parable "There is no ivory that is not cracked," there is no perfect private, each individual certainly has its drawbacks and advantages of each. And when someone is able to be accepted by all the shortcomings and strengths in a community, then surely that person is the happiest person in the world.

Become a Preferred Personal Others
According to some research that has been done, someone would liked nor disliked by others actual related to several things, namely:
According Attractivness Physical Theory: People will be more like everyone else than just physical appearance, for example beautiful, handsome, neat, or a person who has a regular lifestyle.
According Competency Theory: People will be more like people who have the skills, creativity, intelligence, and so on.
According Reciprocal Theory: People will be more like everyone else when others show a sincere attitude of reciprocity.
According Similarity and Complementary Theory: People tend to like others who have some common hobbies, mindset, and others. But the actual pattern someone interest in this way has a temporary nature (temporary) if not have other factors that can support (reinforce) such as, reciprocity, mutual support, and so on.
According to Exhange Theory: People tend to like others who benefit or benefits (both material and non material).
According Reinforcement Theory: People tend to like others who paid tribute to him.
According to the Gain-loss theory: People tend to like others who have an assessment, a view (evaluation), as well as improved support tended to the person.
Then personally like what can make a person do not like other people? Here are the factors:
Arrogant (always despised others), envy, jealousy (not happy to see other people happy or successful).
Do not keep agreements, broken promises, lie to other people, hypocritical, cunning, and others.
Too suspicious to others (negative thinking), do not want to forgive the mistakes of others, rigid, stubborn, less willing to interact with others, and so on.
Be concealed from the criticism of others, pessimistic, no matter the circumstances, is too idealistic (likely unrealistic) in running the society (in terms of tradition, knowledge, religious values).
Easy emotion (offense), not responsible, always dependent on others, unstable personality, easily influenced, unprincipled, arrogant, unwilling to understand the condition of others (do not have a sense of empathy), does not see anything objectively.
And how someone can hit (or even eliminate) the properties of the above? The only way is to always think positive, behave honestly and sincerely. Although it is very difficult to do.
Become a Preferred Personal Others
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2012-09-22T17:58:00-07:00
Title:Become a Preferred Personal Others
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